Be determined to make your relationship powerful. Achieve peace and prosperity through conscious evolution, maintain relationship with self. You cannot get lost in your new exciting love although it is very easy to do so. You give too much of yourself, lose our identity, lose the person that you  were before initiating the relationship, lose the person that your partner was initially in love with. This puts an unnecessary pressure on your new relationship or your new partner, so do not pause the things you were doing before, continue to pursue or hobbies, or your side projects.

Don’t let the relationship become toxic, keep moving yourself forward, keep developing yourself, keep your interests at heart and keep sharing your mutual interests with your new partner. Effective communication is the best way for improving relationships.

There are different causes of bad relationship. When we feel the need to change the other person, the need to coach or assist the other person. It may be unclear whether you are coming from a place of love or are you trying to fix them. When relationships deteriorate there are different signs and symptoms.

People show non-verbal withdrawal such as requiring private space, withdrawal from touch, less smile, less eye contact, withdrawal from wearing the gifts the person gave you. When relationships deteriorate negative messages increase. Hence it is important to encourage friendly comments, appreciative instead of being critical of every action.

When there is verbal withdrawal we do not even listen, we give short answers without enough detail, avoid talking which leads to avoiding the real big problem. We find it difficult to communicate. In a relationship when one person is disgruntled it is important to have an effective communication with that person, instead of letting the anger persist, this help in resolving the cause of distress between two people. Thus, effective communication is the key to resolving relationship issues.

Evolution in consciousness, living your highest calling in life, living your purest potential, showing personal progress and living your life’s purpose, as well as being concerned about the progress of the other person will ultimately help you to have a successful relationship. If your relationship is only based on physical and romantic connection, one person in the relationship will not move with a forward momentum and will blame the other partner for the lack of progress.

When there is a lack of congruence between your inner feelings and the actions that you are taking then there will be a lack of presence in the moment, or you will take out your frustration on them not realizing that you are making those choices. Lack of self actualization and connecting with your higher self will ultimately lead to jealousy, anger and resentments in your relationship. When self actualization is fulfilled two people can now live in a healthy relationship with each other, where both people are giving and neither is taking from each other, both people when coming together are in alignment with their higher goal.